No, if you disable flow control your performance will drop and VOIP will suffer.
I am a WISP as well and have tried all different configurations.
Yes TCP has mechinisums but the pit falls of wireless half duplex links have a much worse impact on L2 traffic as Layer 2 is only aware of physical link state so it thinks that Rocket M5 is 100M-FD and in reality it is variable HD so the port buffers will constantly fill up and start dropping packets which has a much worse impact on TCP throughput then enabling Flow Control.
Yes we under stand a pause frame pauses the ENTIRE interface which is why I always separate back haul radios such as airFIBER 24 to never use the same interface as local small private PTP and PTMP radios at each tower.
Maybe go watch this video
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8JvBEAD4MFMThen there is a second video there where I do speed tests from a location off an AP.